Ok, I’m a guy who just stumbled in here………I don’t post comments too often but I REALLY think I must say something about your point #2 about multidating -
Serious Guys are actually PUT OFF by GIRLS who are dating other men at the same time. Think of my from my perspective – I want to take my date to the most awesome place and do whatever I can to make sure that she is having a GREAT time! BUT if I realize that she’s going to be out with some new guy tomorrow then that completely KILLS my spirit to make efforts towards the date. In fact, when I realize that this girl might be dating someone else too, I completely lose interest. Not that I might not date her anymore but then I see her as just another friends with benefits and I no longer want to make efforts to create that special evenings for both of us! Further, I would never see such a girl as marriage material either! So girls, unless you want a f**ck buddy, don’t multidate! Men will always figure it out if you are not available every other weekend or every other saturday and then they will stop respecting you. If you are looking for a serious fulfilling relationship, then show it by wanting to be exclusive with the person that you really like! Just a guy’s advice!