I also must respectfully disagree. Why can't the guy explain why he's taking a break? There's no need to disappear like that. The one guy who did this to me I decided to give a second chance to… and then he started verbally abusing me and broke up with me by text! Why? Because he doesn't have the communication skills for a real relationship or to treat a woman respectfully when it really matters. Even in ambiguous friendships where dating was an ever-present possibility, the guys never did this hot/cold act. They were able to communicate either verbally or non-verbally what their feelings and intentions were. I won't be giving a "disappearer" another chance again.
I agree with this comment. If a man just up and disappears without any explaination, he has no respectf or you in the first place. He probably doesn't care either. Really? We should take him back so he can walk all over us and do it again. Disappear whenever he feels like cheating or trying out something new. That's just crazy.
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