I like your advice, Cherry! Through working for a law office I''ve seen how beneficial a pre-nup is when one parent of a blended family passes away. There is often an unravelling of the family at this point; kids and stepkids are hurting and not necessarily on their best behavior. Having a document that their parent agreed to is really helpful in the healing process and cuts out accusations towards the stepparent. A good estate plan (including a pre-nup) can make a big difference for family harmony and doesn't necessarily have anything to do with a potential divorce. I wouldn't want to be with a man who didn't think proactively about his kids or value how hard he has worked on his path to meeting me. I would also want him to take action (pre-nup/Trust) on how he adores and protects me, too. I see planning and protecting as chivalrous!
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