Dear SIM: The Bitter Single Guy is a little baffled by what the original problem was here. You broke up because you fought all the time, but now you spend really similar time together without fighting? Were you cohabitating or mixing checking accounts that led to all the conflict?
The BSG mostly thinks you need to figure out (maybe just for yourself) what it was you were fighting about and try to determine whether that will be true again if you’re back together. If you think you’re back in a false honeymoon period and that the battles will ramp up again as soon as you get comfortable, then the BSG recommends pulling out.
It’s pretty easy to fall into old patterns of relationships simply because they’re comfortable. It makes perfect sense to the BSG that you would enjoy hanging out and even a little kissing, but just because the water is a little refreshing on your toes, you don’t need to jump right back in the shark tank again. ~BSG
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